Monday, February 9, 2009

World Is Increasing Elderly And Fragile





If we think the world is increasing elderly and fragile can not afford to withstand shock of life.Nowadays,many people are so easy to abuse and violate the ethical and legal.Many people are blind by circumstances so that they forgot to think so long and choosing a shortcut.
Sometimes have in mind we want to change a group or society, but we are not able to do so because we have limitations in addition to its own advantages.
Quite a dilemma that does not have the end, the dilemma make people wonder why we can not live peacefully without the violence and conflict that leads to destruction of mankind.
Peace it is difficult to do in life at this time because when we watch TV so much violence that occurred, both in the household, community, nation and world.Does human already have not heart again, so they are not able to distinguish the true and the wrong.Why was that one people so easy to create difficulties for others.Why they do love defeat each other rather than complement each other and work together.
Oh world,you has changed because of people who apply lofty, selfish and greedy that makes you more fragile.

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Sunday, February 8, 2009

Misunderstanding Communication





Sometimes good intention that we want to submit from the subconscious in the eye of other people is considered to be the worst. The misunderstanding about communication, which does not make clear the purpose of the main intention.

Every human in the world certainly have a problem. Both problems are mild or problem that make up our wrinkled foreheads. Maybe the problem we face is not heavy for other people, but for the people who experienced that is the heavy problem.Category that measure the weight of problem for each person are different. Giving opinion by saying the 'i know how u feel' is a sentence that is wrong. May we never have problems with things that are similar to themselves. But the question is location, condition of our life not the same with them. Is the life of the past become the main role.Things that happened in the past, establishing ourselves now. Although the point of essentially the same, but each person's mental are vary.

Some people may be able to move directly toward does not look back, but not few people who move to turn back. Perhaps the question becomes why should turn? do not let drop to the same hole?

Mutual sense of grace, sometimes it becomes the starting point where the 'misunderstanding' can occur.When hearts are heat, we try to cool it. However, what happens? people even felt that we are happy with them current unstable situation. On the other hand, when the heart is being cool, silent, and we do not offend or wonder to others.

Truly ironic game in the world. It seems that every action or movement have a weak point. Which the target is not really what we want to them in order not to cause misunderstanding.

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Defeat Is Not The End Of Everything





Nowadays in the era of competition from all areas are tight.Competition is necessary, because with the competition, it will trigger us to do our best, so that the biggest power within us can appeared. Competition is very tight indeed needed,in the end result when we lose, we must dare to acknowledge our defeat and dare to acknowledge our opponent victory. From this defeat we can start again with the evaluation of the causes of our defeat, not trying in ways not good to keep winning, and that is not imposed in a way both will produce something that bad.

Defeat can't be separated from the elements of life. When there are a laughing, happy and successful in the earth or even other side of our home, there are the weeping and sorrow. This world continues to revolve, so that the defeat is important and can't be inseparable from the part of the human life.With experienced defeat or failure, we will surely feel the sweet of victory.

Person who is always successful in their lives, whether it is a standards that he pleased and happiness? I don't think so. Too easy to get something, it does not make people feel weary toil of hard work which is a distinctive memories. The more difficult things we have, when it is successful we are in the grip. I am sure we will feel proud of our efforts from our own sweat.

Defeat is not the end of everything,defeat is the moment for us to rise up and forward, so dare to struggle, dare to win, dare to lose, and we will become an extraoedinary person, and many lessons that we take from the defeat,then the appeal of victory, so that victory is a normal way, dare to lose is extraordinary, defeat is a first step we become successful.

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Respect Others First If We Want To Be Respected





Nowadays we tend to often forget to appreciate our fellow, sometimes we always want to be appreciated, without appreciate other people. In the environment,in friends,in the street we always want to be appreciated. Do you ask yourself, what would be respected by others if we do not respect other people first.

This is a question for most people in his heart,when we feel, we are less respected by other people.May be some of them behave like that because we do not respect them, but on the other because of our relationship is too close. So that the boundaries that should have started to fade because of proximity.

We must respect the opinions of others. Although they are much younger than us.Behave like that must we have in ourselves.May be we always think, each person have the point of view that is different.That is opinion, whether he's younger than us, we must esteem so that a broader view of our minds and we become more open minded and wise

How do we start to respectothers?
Look for the excess-surplus every person we meet then we will see it as a valuable person. We can appreciate each other as fellow human beings or the creation of god, do not continue to shed hubris ourselves, we feel more clever,more rich or more of everything. Try to think about there is more smart people among others. Or even if we are rich when we need food, we need others to make our cuisine,if we want to eat bread we have to buy from traders who have, or purchase at the restaurant. This explains that even though we have the wealth, science, but we still need other people is not.

From that perspective, we can learn to appreciate each other our fellow,sometime difficult to appreciate other people. This opinion could be correct. Because in nature human always want to appreciated. That is,human is really self-centered. They always wanted to be understood, but rarely try to understand. As a result, the weight to respect and appreciate other people.

Many benefits can we get if we want to respect other people,we can help each other, reinforce each other, and mutual benefit so that life becomes more good, because to support the success we need to be able to appreciate other people.

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